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भूरिदा कुटुंब ( Bhurida Kutumb )

Meaning of The Name of this Page :

|| भूरिदा – यथेष्ट दान देनेवाला || कुटुंब – परिवार ||

A Family where there is a Wish to Give Much to Each Other

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..Recent Death of Souvik Da came as a shock to most of us. Many of us have fond memories of childhood spent together. The most bereaved would be his immediate family – daughter and spouse. With passage of time, we will move on and so will the family . However the Disruption caused to the family due to loss of father, death of a husband is irreparable. We all in RK Mission will pray that the he family may gather the strength to face the difficulties yet I shudder to think of the kind of hardships they may face in his absence. ; the cumulative hardships over the years.

We can only imagine the devastations caused to bereaved families. .

My grandfather ( नाना ) died when my mother and her siblings were yet school going children. Those who had once enjoyed his generous hospitality , and even many close relatives found my vulnerable granny ( नानी) an easy prey and swindled away the property and little cash she have had.

This is not just Story of one family , but this is too often the case in a world NOT lacking in Self-Centred opportunists and the ungrateful .

What we can Do

We always have had a brethren and fellow feelings towards the Vidyapith Alumni বিদ্যাপীঠের ছেলে and most closely with batchmates and some of immediate juniors or seniors.

No Doubt, We have been in touch over the years- Evolving From Letters – Phone Calls, – Yahoo mails – Hotmail – Gmail – Yahoo Groups – Orkut – Facebook- WhatsApp .

Due to gift of technology, We are now more easily connected and we are interacting at an increasing scale and more frequently. But Technology is just the tool and enabler . We are increasingly interacting because we have always felt a sense of bonding in the first place.

It’s High Time we coalesced further together for Stronger Mutual Bonding .

परस्परं भावयन्तः – Lets foster Mutual Affections .

वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् – The Whole world is a Family.

While we may Not yet be able to make the Whole World as our Family, We can to some extent, expand to include the RK Mission Alumni as family.

Charity begins at Home.

We the Alumni of RK Mission, Vidypith Deoghar can come together as a family and community to be of Support to each other depending on our capacity or willingness to do so. ( Not that we don’t , but we may do on a more systematic and sustained manner than the sporadic or ad-hoc basic) .

We can go beyond the short bursts and bubble of emotions of euphoria during celebrations of achievements or shared grief during moments of loss.

Specifics Proposal

A) Lets have a page ( webpage later on ) on Facebook that is specially Meant for Supporting the Family of Souvik Da . Bhabhi & Daughter will be invited to be a member of that page

B) On the page will be Those Alumni who volunteer to be of any help to the family.

What will the family need

a) Legal Advise & Support : For

b) Bank Related Matters : PF, Pension, Bank Accounts Updating Records

c) Travel and Stay Assistance : At Outside their Home town – help in Booking guest houses etc.

d) Guidance on Higher Studies : Career Choices ,

e) All Round Development : May be sponsor the daughter for some Online course or Offline one she may be wishing for or in need of and that will aid her development.

f) In SHORT : Usually what a father looks after or takes care of for the welfare and development of his daughter. So That Page will be the UNCLES of RK Mission Vidypith

C) On that page We can encouarge the family to feel free to Share the need of any assitajnce they may need or if they feel more comfortable, then then can whatsapp or talk to any of the alumni who has been close to the family ( Eg Animesh ) who will in turn post to the facebook page dedicated and specially made for them

D) In Time : This page can be utilised for Building community for next generation i.e. for Children of Alumni .. Yet, Already people would be much busy ; rather so busy that they are NOT able to devote time to their own health issues even or ,quality time with family or on many things that matter to them, In such a scenario , It may be that we don’t overwhelm each other when everyone already seem to have their own share of troubles and struggles already .

As such , lets not attempt too much and fail or become tardy in implemenation – All talk and no work.

A better approach at this juncture would be to

a) Focus on Those families where an alumni has died or become so sick that he can’t seem to take care of his family. The family is having a hard time , especially young children suddenly turned orphan and with the attendant consequences.

Plan for action

a) Face book Page : Vidypaith UNCLE group

b) Invite the Family to become group members

c) Enroll Volunteers – With Brief Intro about each.

d) Offer to Help to best of capacity – a) Legal b) Bank Work c ) Tax Matters d) Police & admin e) Medical Advisory or recommendations f) Education , studies and Higher Education

When someone we have known closely, dies , we feel as if a part of us has died too. We did share a portion of our life in the form of time we spent together .

We lost our batchmate G. Arun Sharma while we were still in college. He kept up his sporting spirit and would always be a star in inter-school football matches.Pallav , Abhishek & I used to meet up in Delhi. He met a road accident that proved fatal.

Then Recently we lost two of our batchmates – N, Ranjit Singh & Pallav Saharia.

And now there is the Sad news of death of Souvik da.

Every time some one dies, it creates a sense of loss. We all feel it.

The recent death of Sri Souvik Ghosh made me feel that I lost a part of me.

When I say “me” I mean the Sum of My Memories

Propostion

Can we foster the Child . Till She Needs the Support that she will have hard time finding due to bereavement from father

Trigger

When someone we have known closely, dies , we feel as if a part of us has died too. We did share a portion of our life in the form of time we spent together .

We lost our batchmate G. Arun Sharma while we were still in college. He kept up his sporting spirit and would always be a star in inter-school football matches.Pallav , Abhishek & I used to meet up in Delhi. He met a road accident that proved fatal.

Then Recently we lost two of our batchmates – N, Ranjit Singh & Pallav Saharia.

And now there is the Sad news of death of Souvik da.

Every time some one dies, it creates a sense of loss. We all feel it.

The recent death of Sri Souvik Ghosh made me feel that I lost a part of me.

When I say “me” I mean the Sum of My Memories